Yes, it is possible, fun and wonderful for the environment! This article is about America's best-kept
enviro-secret: Babies can be potty trained in infancy. As hard as it is for Westerners to believe, the
process of infant potty training is a very simple and cozy one, used in many countries around the
world.
Infant potty training is the most environmentally friendly system a parent can use. It is the ultimate
answer to the cloth vs. disposable diaper argument: Reduce and eliminate diapers! It is important
for parents to think about potty training during pregnancy or the first few months of life, yet most
do not even consider the topic until their baby is over a year old--often too late to start infant toilet
learning.
I used the conventional Western method of potty training with my first two sons and was very
dissatisfied with the results--diapers until 3 years of age and occasional bed wetting for several
more years. By the time my third son was born, I was fortunate enough to learn about infant toilet
training and adopted the method immediately. The result? No more dirty diapers, and he was
continent day and night around 25 months.
Each child that is trained in the "accepted" manner of "wearing diapers for years" uses 6,000-10,000
diapers before staying dry. That's a lot of disposable diapers to clog our over-taxed landfills! And
that's also a lot of trees felled for feces.
Many environmentally conscious parents elect to use cloth diapers which, in terms of the
environment, may offer a slight improvement over disposables, but still expends valuable resources
and causes pollution and other problems. By using relatively few cloth diapers, parents can conserve
a lot of water, reduce electricity consumption and avoid using considerable amounts of polluting
chemicals.
This method affords the greatest hygienic respect for your baby since she never has to sit in her
waste products. It also eliminates diaper rash.
There are important financial rewards. Think of the savings if you could drastically reduce or even
eliminate diapers altogether! Families save from $1,000-$3,000 per child. In addition, the yearly cost
to taxpayers for diaper disposal is astronomical, approaching half a billion $$.
In short, YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE if you use infant potty training. Parents as an
individual family unit may think that one baby's worth of diapers doesn't have much impact on the
planet. But when the diapers of thousands of babies are compiled, compacted or cleansed, the toll
is staggering. It is our children and grandchildren who will have to deal with the mess we are
making. We, as responsible adults, should cut back on pollution and depletion whenever and
wherever possible. One effective way to do so is to reduce/avoid the use of diapers.
Most people laugh when they first hear about the concept of infant potty training, "Impossible," they
say. Yet we know that kids can learn a foreign language with no effort and no accent until they are
about 9 or 10; thereafter it becomes a difficult task. In the same way, infants are receptive to
elimination communication from birth and pick it up in a day or two. The window of learning
generally remains open until the age of 4-5 months (longer in some cases). The problem is, parents
teach infants to use a diaper as their toilet, then our children have to unlearn this behavior later.
Although small babies do not have the muscular control to voluntarily retain their elimination, they
can be prompted to RELEASE these muscles and respond to your cues if it is near time to "go." So
when you think your baby needs to go, take her in your arms and hold her over a plastic basin,
bathroom sink (great fun to gaze at mom in the mirror!) or whatever container you elect to use as
an infant potty. Since your infant cannot yet sit, you must provide adequate and comfortable support
in your arms. That is one reason why this method enhances bonding and is so gentle and loving.
Most babies go at fairly regular intervals after eating and sleeping (example, every 20 minutes 3
times after nursing), but parents are not familiar with these patterns since they bundle their babies
in diapers. It takes 1-2 hours to observe your undiapered baby and get a feel for his elimination
patterns and timing. Some mothers don't even need to do this since they rely partly or purely on
intuition to know when their baby needs to go. Once you are familiar with your baby's potty
patterns, it is up to you to take him to his potty place on time. This is usually fairly time consuming
in the early months, but in the long run, infant potty training generally takes no longer than
conventional training. There are exceptions to every rule, and no one claims that infant potty training
is the best method for all families. No matter what method is used, there will always be some babies
who finish sooner than others.
Another fabulous aspect of this method is the close communication you experience with your baby
as you learn to read and respond to his elimination signals (body language and vocalizations). Just
as breastfeeding is a lot more than a means of feeding a baby, in the same way infant potty training
is a lot more than just a means of toilet learning. It is a lifestyle choice and therefore a matter of
preference.
By working with your infant in the manner described here, you keep him in touch with his natural
awareness of the elimination functions. This awareness increases as he experiences the muscular
sensations involved with elimination on a daily basis. As soon as his muscles and nervous system
are developed enough for him to voluntarily retain, he will be potty trained.
There is a growing community of families using this gentle method. Your baby is ready if you are!